Thursday, November 10, 2011
Back to Square one....
Since my last update things have started happening again. Last night was Kervens first night back at the orphanage and we ended up traveling out there late last night because Kervens was seizing again. This is the first time I actually have witnessed these seizures and my heart is breaking in two. I have prayed and cried and rubbed his little body and prayed and cried some more. The medical team that is here that are such a huge part of Kervens life was also called in....This morning as I am arriving here, I have learned he is seizing again this morning. I prayed before I left my room this morning that God might be glorified thru myself and Kervens today....I have no idea what lies ahead of me in the next few hours....but I am heading out in complete faith that God has this day and all of us in it....
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
It has been a good day, Tues. blog on Wed. morning....
Kervens went to Therapy this morning aided by his walker and he left without it. In fact he was running, actually running around the concrete courtyard. Please keep in mind, at the same time yesterday, he was being held up just to get him into the home where the therapist was. now I know this guy is probably a very fine therapist, possibly one of the best...but...he is no miracle worker...What I have just witnessed is nothing short of a miracle and do know THAT Miracle Worker. I have been praying, along with several others that God would allow Kervens a full recovery...And He has.
Today I met Saidah(Si e dah)...She looks Haitian but is American and lives in Hawaii. She is 69 years old and is coming over here to help Madame B. (88yrs old) open a girls home. Saidah is a mighty prayer warrior...that is very obvious, and jan you would love love love her. She has been praying for young Samuel since she first met him a few weeks ago. Samuel is the little 4 1/2 lb baby who has the inoperatable brain tumor living at the orphanage. Saidah prays for a full recovery and believes with every ounce of her being that God is going to honor that prayer...Those are the kind of prayers I believe God DOES honor, those sent up to Him thru the blood of Christ with not a shred of doubt attached to them. Again, I believe, if time would permit, I have found yet another kindred spirit. Those people make my heart smile, just being around them gives me the feeling I am in the presense of a great man or woman of faith. Saidah went to the orphanage this morning to spend the day holding little Samuel and know doubt to send up a few more prayers for him. Kervens stayed there also to translate for Madame Aristilde and Saidah. Kervens' heart was singing too, based on the huge smile on his face, just to be back home, walking wherever he wanted without the aide of anyone or anything.
Tomorrow is one more therapy session for Kervens and quite possibly afterwards he will return back to the orphanage, back to school and back to a normal 13yr. old life. This is just one more chapter in this young mans amazing life. What a story... I hope God allows me to live long enough not to see how the story ends but to see where this journey continues to take him.....
Today I met Saidah(Si e dah)...She looks Haitian but is American and lives in Hawaii. She is 69 years old and is coming over here to help Madame B. (88yrs old) open a girls home. Saidah is a mighty prayer warrior...that is very obvious, and jan you would love love love her. She has been praying for young Samuel since she first met him a few weeks ago. Samuel is the little 4 1/2 lb baby who has the inoperatable brain tumor living at the orphanage. Saidah prays for a full recovery and believes with every ounce of her being that God is going to honor that prayer...Those are the kind of prayers I believe God DOES honor, those sent up to Him thru the blood of Christ with not a shred of doubt attached to them. Again, I believe, if time would permit, I have found yet another kindred spirit. Those people make my heart smile, just being around them gives me the feeling I am in the presense of a great man or woman of faith. Saidah went to the orphanage this morning to spend the day holding little Samuel and know doubt to send up a few more prayers for him. Kervens stayed there also to translate for Madame Aristilde and Saidah. Kervens' heart was singing too, based on the huge smile on his face, just to be back home, walking wherever he wanted without the aide of anyone or anything.
Tomorrow is one more therapy session for Kervens and quite possibly afterwards he will return back to the orphanage, back to school and back to a normal 13yr. old life. This is just one more chapter in this young mans amazing life. What a story... I hope God allows me to live long enough not to see how the story ends but to see where this journey continues to take him.....
Monday, November 7, 2011
But Mary Kept all these things, and pondered them in her heart...Luke 2:19
This verse ran thru my mind this afternoon when we got back from the therapist and the orphanage. There is so much going on in my heart right now... I am still processing it in my mind. I can't even put alot of it into words yet, at least into words that would make sense to anyone reading this...maybe after I am through with the processing part. So for now, I too am keeping all these things and pondering them in my heart....
The therapist was not sure what was wrong with Kervens...He said there is strength in his legs but it is like a misfire between his brain and his legs right now. HE has Kervens walking with a walker and he gave him a list of exercises todo each day. Even by afternoon Kervens could see a difference in his walking ability. He still has to think to make his knee lock into place with each step. He never complains or shows discouragement with what he is going thru . He is in a bed across the room from me asleep. He is quite a young man and we had an opportunity to talk this afternoon more seriously than we normally do. I keep trying to learn more about him, about his past and the path that God has had him on that lead him straight into my path. I shared with him about Diego, Drew and Issac, about Chase, the Angricks and the Rangers and of course the Roberts. We talked about the network of people God has already placed in his life in his very short 13 yrs. Again such a tapestry...
I have been praying for the last couple of weeks that God would bring Kervens to us quickly- but instead He chose to bring me back here. It is I who still has so much to learn...One thing I am beginning to realize as I listen and observe is the need to quit praying for God to bring him to us quickly and start praying 'in your perfect time Lord'. Haitis is Kervens home by God's design and the path He has had Kervens on has brought many people into his life. People whom he has bonded with and whom he has grown to love very very much...Pastor and Madame Aristilde are at the very tip top of that list. He has close sibling ties to those children that live with him in the orphanage. To pray quickly would be to rip or tear him apart from those bonds...but Gods perfect time would be a gentle seperation, after heart and mind had been made ready to let go for what I am convinced will only be for a season.
This week I have witnessed God's answer to a specific prayer...I know He is here with me. He is teaching me and in the long quiet hours in my room I am finding time to read, pray and time for meditation...I am finding time to write...something that should make my hussband extremely happy. No phones, or tv's or computers( until much later tonight when I blog what I am writing right now)... there is no house to clean or laundry to do...just time....time for some soul searching aloneness with God.
Last night, I read the following and felt it perfect to share with you now.
"These were the potters, and those that dwelt among plants and Hedges: there they dwelt with the King for His work." 1 Chronicles 4:23
Anywhere and everywhere we may "dwell" with the king for his work. We may be in a very unlikely and unfavorable place for this: it may be in a literal country life, with little enough to be seen of the 'goings' of the King around us; it may be among the hedges of all sorts, hindrances in all directions; it may be furthermore, with our hands full of all manner of pottery for our daily task.
No Matter! The King who placed us 'there' will come and dwell there with us; the hedges are right, or He would soon do away with them. And it does not follow that whata seems to hinder our way may not be for its very protection; and as for the pottery, why, that is just exactly what He has seen fit to put into our hand, and therefore it is, for the present, "His Work"
Go back to thy garden-plot, sweetheart!
Go back to the evening falls,
And bind thy lilies and train thy vines,
Till for thee the Master calls.
Go make thy garden fair as thou canst,
Thou workest never alone;
Perhaps he whose plot is next to thine
Will see it and mend his own"
The colored sunsets and starry heavens, the beautiful mouontains and the shining seas, the fragrant woods and painted flowers, are not half so beautiful as a soul that is serving Jesus out of love, in the wear and tear of common, unpoetic life.
We truly serve an amazing God.....
UPDATE: I just returned a few moments ago from an unexpected run with Cathy back to the orphanage. A young boy around the age of 7 was just dropped off at Rodney and Cathys house. His father has died, his mom is dying and he has been taken away from a grandmother that was not caring for him. Madame Aristilde has once again opened her heart and home and has taken in yet another child. We left him a heap at her feet crying. This was a very hard night on Cathy...she has made a decision altimately for his good, he is just to young to understand this. I whispered to Kervens, " You are going to have to build a big orphanage," as that is what God has laid on his heart to do...He replied, "It just keeps getting bigger".....
The therapist was not sure what was wrong with Kervens...He said there is strength in his legs but it is like a misfire between his brain and his legs right now. HE has Kervens walking with a walker and he gave him a list of exercises todo each day. Even by afternoon Kervens could see a difference in his walking ability. He still has to think to make his knee lock into place with each step. He never complains or shows discouragement with what he is going thru . He is in a bed across the room from me asleep. He is quite a young man and we had an opportunity to talk this afternoon more seriously than we normally do. I keep trying to learn more about him, about his past and the path that God has had him on that lead him straight into my path. I shared with him about Diego, Drew and Issac, about Chase, the Angricks and the Rangers and of course the Roberts. We talked about the network of people God has already placed in his life in his very short 13 yrs. Again such a tapestry...
I have been praying for the last couple of weeks that God would bring Kervens to us quickly- but instead He chose to bring me back here. It is I who still has so much to learn...One thing I am beginning to realize as I listen and observe is the need to quit praying for God to bring him to us quickly and start praying 'in your perfect time Lord'. Haitis is Kervens home by God's design and the path He has had Kervens on has brought many people into his life. People whom he has bonded with and whom he has grown to love very very much...Pastor and Madame Aristilde are at the very tip top of that list. He has close sibling ties to those children that live with him in the orphanage. To pray quickly would be to rip or tear him apart from those bonds...but Gods perfect time would be a gentle seperation, after heart and mind had been made ready to let go for what I am convinced will only be for a season.
This week I have witnessed God's answer to a specific prayer...I know He is here with me. He is teaching me and in the long quiet hours in my room I am finding time to read, pray and time for meditation...I am finding time to write...something that should make my hussband extremely happy. No phones, or tv's or computers( until much later tonight when I blog what I am writing right now)... there is no house to clean or laundry to do...just time....time for some soul searching aloneness with God.
Last night, I read the following and felt it perfect to share with you now.
"These were the potters, and those that dwelt among plants and Hedges: there they dwelt with the King for His work." 1 Chronicles 4:23
Anywhere and everywhere we may "dwell" with the king for his work. We may be in a very unlikely and unfavorable place for this: it may be in a literal country life, with little enough to be seen of the 'goings' of the King around us; it may be among the hedges of all sorts, hindrances in all directions; it may be furthermore, with our hands full of all manner of pottery for our daily task.
No Matter! The King who placed us 'there' will come and dwell there with us; the hedges are right, or He would soon do away with them. And it does not follow that whata seems to hinder our way may not be for its very protection; and as for the pottery, why, that is just exactly what He has seen fit to put into our hand, and therefore it is, for the present, "His Work"
Go back to thy garden-plot, sweetheart!
Go back to the evening falls,
And bind thy lilies and train thy vines,
Till for thee the Master calls.
Go make thy garden fair as thou canst,
Thou workest never alone;
Perhaps he whose plot is next to thine
Will see it and mend his own"
The colored sunsets and starry heavens, the beautiful mouontains and the shining seas, the fragrant woods and painted flowers, are not half so beautiful as a soul that is serving Jesus out of love, in the wear and tear of common, unpoetic life.
We truly serve an amazing God.....
UPDATE: I just returned a few moments ago from an unexpected run with Cathy back to the orphanage. A young boy around the age of 7 was just dropped off at Rodney and Cathys house. His father has died, his mom is dying and he has been taken away from a grandmother that was not caring for him. Madame Aristilde has once again opened her heart and home and has taken in yet another child. We left him a heap at her feet crying. This was a very hard night on Cathy...she has made a decision altimately for his good, he is just to young to understand this. I whispered to Kervens, " You are going to have to build a big orphanage," as that is what God has laid on his heart to do...He replied, "It just keeps getting bigger".....
Sunday, November 6, 2011
I am here....
Saturday...............I am here. The trip from PortAu Prince to Gonaive took longer than the trip from the states to Haiti. I was anxious to get Kervens here with me-but I am not so sure tonight he was as anxious to leave the orphanage. Lets be real, he is 13 yrs. old...at the orphanage, even sick, he has lots of kids around him to talk to. Here he has.....well....me....Tonight P. Aristilde was downloading a movie for the kids, mainly for the boys. It was a karate kicking action packed thriller. Bummer to be a 13 yr. old boy hanging out with the old woman with that kind of entertainment back on the home front.
Sunday
Kervens can't walk by himself now. His leg muscles are like jello and buckle under him. Yesterday even his head was wobbly. Today his neck seems alot stronger. Last night I put a chair in the shower for him-got everything he would need and then acting as a crutch was able to get him into the chair. He was on his own for the rest. After he was done and I had him back in bed, I went to clean up the shower things. I freaked when I saw what I thought was Kervens toothbrush floating in the nasty shower water- What a relief to find it was just an old toothbrush, probably used to clean with, and Kervens was rolled neatly up with his dirty underwear-geez...boys.
Kervens rolled arouond on his bed alot in the night. I woke him up once because he was having a bad dream. Took him to the restroom at 4am and gave him ibuprophen because he said his back hurt. He then slept like a baby for the next 4 hours....no rolling around....
Eddy kknocked a hole in the concrete wall yesterday in our bedroom and put in a new airconditioner. This helped Kervens last night sleep more comfortable and me too if the truth be known. I want to interject something here for Toby....I know why Diego was in our lives 1st...to prepare us for Kervens. He ate 10 normal pancakes and 2 poptarts for breakfast...any chance for more overtime????Also I have been craving peaches since I got here...hmmmm......strange.
I truly believe what Kervens is experiencing is some left over juck from the spinal tap...His back hurts where he was stuck and even the new problem with the muscles I think could be stemming from the spinal tap. Please someone with medical knowledge let me know if this is possible, I am not a doctor, just a mom with a hunch...Tomorrow Kervens is going to see a physical theriapist that Cathy has lined up and after that he is heading back to the orphanage to try and attend school. I know he has missed a week of school, but I think he is going back to soon....Again, just a mom hunch.....
I am not sure how long I am here for, that depends on when someone is heading back to Port Au Prince...We are not in Kansas anymore toto....no such thing as a 20 minute trip to the airport. What is helping Kervens the most right now is your prayers going up. I think for the most part wer totally underestimate the power of prayer. We pray douobting that God will really hear us...Oh the mighty things we miss out on because we pray without truly believing....I read to Kervens out of my 'Streams in the dessert" devotional last night before we went to bed after talking about all he had been going thru. It was the Nov. 5th one if you have the book. It was titled 'Is there anything too hard for Jehovah" Gen 18:14 It talked of how we hinder Gods working in our lives because of doubting prayer. It was perfect for last night....for Kervens and for me.....
Last minute update. Just found out that Kervens will be staying with me for a few more days....P. Aristilde also thinks it alittle quick to return to school...sorry kervens...:)
Sunday
Kervens can't walk by himself now. His leg muscles are like jello and buckle under him. Yesterday even his head was wobbly. Today his neck seems alot stronger. Last night I put a chair in the shower for him-got everything he would need and then acting as a crutch was able to get him into the chair. He was on his own for the rest. After he was done and I had him back in bed, I went to clean up the shower things. I freaked when I saw what I thought was Kervens toothbrush floating in the nasty shower water- What a relief to find it was just an old toothbrush, probably used to clean with, and Kervens was rolled neatly up with his dirty underwear-geez...boys.
Kervens rolled arouond on his bed alot in the night. I woke him up once because he was having a bad dream. Took him to the restroom at 4am and gave him ibuprophen because he said his back hurt. He then slept like a baby for the next 4 hours....no rolling around....
Eddy kknocked a hole in the concrete wall yesterday in our bedroom and put in a new airconditioner. This helped Kervens last night sleep more comfortable and me too if the truth be known. I want to interject something here for Toby....I know why Diego was in our lives 1st...to prepare us for Kervens. He ate 10 normal pancakes and 2 poptarts for breakfast...any chance for more overtime????Also I have been craving peaches since I got here...hmmmm......strange.
I truly believe what Kervens is experiencing is some left over juck from the spinal tap...His back hurts where he was stuck and even the new problem with the muscles I think could be stemming from the spinal tap. Please someone with medical knowledge let me know if this is possible, I am not a doctor, just a mom with a hunch...Tomorrow Kervens is going to see a physical theriapist that Cathy has lined up and after that he is heading back to the orphanage to try and attend school. I know he has missed a week of school, but I think he is going back to soon....Again, just a mom hunch.....
I am not sure how long I am here for, that depends on when someone is heading back to Port Au Prince...We are not in Kansas anymore toto....no such thing as a 20 minute trip to the airport. What is helping Kervens the most right now is your prayers going up. I think for the most part wer totally underestimate the power of prayer. We pray douobting that God will really hear us...Oh the mighty things we miss out on because we pray without truly believing....I read to Kervens out of my 'Streams in the dessert" devotional last night before we went to bed after talking about all he had been going thru. It was the Nov. 5th one if you have the book. It was titled 'Is there anything too hard for Jehovah" Gen 18:14 It talked of how we hinder Gods working in our lives because of doubting prayer. It was perfect for last night....for Kervens and for me.....
Last minute update. Just found out that Kervens will be staying with me for a few more days....P. Aristilde also thinks it alittle quick to return to school...sorry kervens...:)
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Heading back to Haiti....
I have said since before I left for Haiti a few weeks ago, I don't know how this story is all going to end and I still don't. What I know is that God is still moving and working and hearing and answering prayers. I am leaving Indiana tomorrow night heading back into Haiti....Why did He connect my heart with this young boy....I don't know...but He did and He is going to teach many things thru Kervens I am convinced. I am so ready to go back....that in itself is of God. The fact that I have a husband and children totally supportive of this is also of God. He provided the money to go one week before I knew I was even going. I serve such an amazing God and I so trust Him....I don't even ask Him any more why or what is around the corner...but it seems I just move thru each day now just trusting that God has it and He will reveal to my heart those things He wants me to understand , when He wants me to understand them.
Kervens is still having serious issues and I will get to help with his care. So many things happening now that is totally of the Lord and when time permits I hope to share with all of you who are reading this. Some will understand it and some won't but through all of it, my prayer is that God gains all the glory and that those of you who do not have a personal relationship with Christ might come to know Him.
I am thankful that God has given to me the family He has. I am thankful for a daughter whose gift is to be able to put together travel plans at a drop of a hat. Thank you Britt. I love you.....I am thankful for a hardworking husband who has always permitted me to do those things that I have felt God laying on my heart to do, for allowing me to continually keep filling our home up with children from every walk of life. I could have only been married to you. I am thankful for Ava, and Hudson, and Emma.....been praying for you for a very long time. Bri, I take with me what you have taught me...firm but sweet. Matt you have no idea the place I continue to pray you to and WHEN it happens, just know it was a mamas prayer.
Now I leave asking those that read, to pray ...for safe travel, wisdom, and Kervens full recovery. I am still convinced God has an amazing plan for this young mans life. I consider it a privilege that God is allowing my family to be a small part of it if only for a season.....
Kervens is still having serious issues and I will get to help with his care. So many things happening now that is totally of the Lord and when time permits I hope to share with all of you who are reading this. Some will understand it and some won't but through all of it, my prayer is that God gains all the glory and that those of you who do not have a personal relationship with Christ might come to know Him.
I am thankful that God has given to me the family He has. I am thankful for a daughter whose gift is to be able to put together travel plans at a drop of a hat. Thank you Britt. I love you.....I am thankful for a hardworking husband who has always permitted me to do those things that I have felt God laying on my heart to do, for allowing me to continually keep filling our home up with children from every walk of life. I could have only been married to you. I am thankful for Ava, and Hudson, and Emma.....been praying for you for a very long time. Bri, I take with me what you have taught me...firm but sweet. Matt you have no idea the place I continue to pray you to and WHEN it happens, just know it was a mamas prayer.
Now I leave asking those that read, to pray ...for safe travel, wisdom, and Kervens full recovery. I am still convinced God has an amazing plan for this young mans life. I consider it a privilege that God is allowing my family to be a small part of it if only for a season.....
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